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October marks Breast Cancer Awareness Month, a time to honor survivors, remember those we’ve lost, and raise awareness about this life-altering disease. For me, this month carries profound significance. In 2015, I was diagnosed with triple negative breast cancer, one of the most aggressive and difficult-to-treat forms of breast cancer. It disproportionately affects African American and Jewish women and is known for its high likelihood of spreading and recurring.
My journey began with fear and uncertainty, but it was also marked by resilience and grace. I underwent 16 rounds of chemotherapy, each one more grueling than the last. The treatments drained my energy, tested my spirit, and left lasting side effects that I still manage today. But through it all, I held onto hope, and today, I am in remission. I thank God every day for the gift of life and the strength to keep moving forward.
I could not have made it through without the unwavering support of my family, friends, and medical team. Their kindness, patience, and presence carried me through the darkest days. Whether it was driving me to appointments, sitting with me during treatments, assisting me financially, forming prayer circles or simply checking in with a phone call, their acts of love made all the difference.
If you know someone currently undergoing cancer treatment, please know that your support can be life-changing. Cancer patients often face a mountain of appointments—doctor visits, lab tests, scans, and treatments. Offering to help coordinate or accompany them can ease a tremendous burden. Financial assistance is also deeply appreciated. Even with insurance, the costs of co-pays, medications, and rehabilitation services can be overwhelming. A small gesture, covering a bill, sending a meal, or donating to their care fund, can go a long way.
Most importantly, be present. Chemotherapy, especially the stronger regimens, is exhausting. Patients may not have the energy to ask for help, so offer it freely and follow through. Ask what they need, and be ready to step in when they say yes. Your compassion and reliability will mean more than you know.
Every October, I reflect on how far I’ve come and how blessed I am to still be here. My scars tell a story of survival, and my heart is full of gratitude. Breast Cancer Awareness Month is not just about pink ribbons, it’s about real people, real battles, and real hope. Let’s continue to raise awareness, support research, and stand by those who are fighting. And to my fellow survivors: your strength inspires me. Keep shining.
